Month: September 2022

Having breakfast makes you smarter. What breakfast can “wake up our brain and morning “?

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Post date 12/09/2022
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Parenting Tips

September 2022

Written By: Founder of Kat-Spirit Nutrition Centre

Senior Nutritionist Ng Yiu Fun

The school year has started, did the children have breakfast before school? Many children have different reasons for not eating breakfast, but parents should pay attention to the fact that breakfast has a great impact on the growth of children!

Earlier, a study by the Chinese University of Hong Kong showed that breakfast has a significant impact on the academic performance of students. Students who have the habit of eating breakfast every day, test scores are more than 5 points higher than the average student who did not eat breakfast. Why does breakfast make us smarter?

Because the brain needs blood sugar for nutrient absorption and consumption, but when our body sleeps all night without food, the body has consumed our blood sugar for the whole day. Therefore, we need to eat breakfast to replenish blood sugar, so that our response becomes faster. Parents may ask, “What is the best breakfast for children?

What breakfast can “wake up our brain and morning”?

1.Starchy food

This includes porridge, flour, noodles, rice, bread and biscuits, so we can eat a sandwich, a bowl of macaroni or rice flour as well; even drinking milk, eating oatmeal or corn flakes is fine.

2. Protein supplement
Since protein itself can make us react faster, for example, shredded chicken is rich in protein, so for breakfast, you can choose a bowl of rice noodles in shredded chicken soup or macaroni in shredded chicken soup, or have an egg sandwich with cheese, which can also help us replenish our needs for the day. So all parents remember to remind children to eat breakfast before going to school!

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食早餐較聰明甚麼早餐可以「醒腦醒晨」？

家長錦囊

September 2022

撰文：家營營養中心創辦人　資深營養師　吳耀芬

開學了，小朋友上學前有沒有吃早餐呢？很多小朋友有不同的原因，養成了不吃早餐的習慣，但是各位家長要留意，原來早餐對小朋友的成長有很大的影響呢！

早前中文大學的研究顯示，原來早餐對學生的學業成績有重大影響。有每天吃早餐習慣的學生，考試成績較一般沒有吃早餐的學生高出5分之多。為甚麼吃早餐會令我們更聰明呢？

由於腦部需要血糖作為營養的吸收和消耗，但當我們的身體整晚處於沒有食物的狀態下入睡，身體已消耗了我們一整天的血糖。所以，我們更需要進食早餐以補充血糖，令我們的反應變得較快。家長可能會問，有甚麼早餐比較適合小朋友？

甚麼早餐可以「醒腦醒晨」？

1.澱粉質的食物

包括粥、粉、麵、飯、麵包和餅乾等，所以我們可以吃一件三文治、一碗通粉或米粉也可以；甚至飲牛奶、吃燕麥片或粟米片也沒有問題。

2.補充蛋白質

由於蛋白質本身也可以讓我們的反應會快一點，例如雞絲含豐富的蛋白質，所以早餐可以選擇一碗雞絲湯米粉或雞絲湯通粉，或吃一份芝士蛋三文治，也可以幫助我們補充一天的需要。所以各位家長記得提醒小朋友，要吃了早餐才上學了！

Become a secure attachment for your child.Parent-child interaction is
especially important

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Post date 07/09/2022
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especially important

Parenting Tips

September 2022

Written By: Ms. Lui Shuk Jing, Family Dynamics Personal, Marriage and Family Therapist

There is a Chinese saying “the age of three determines 80” and the West has another saying “The future is now”.It is clear that both Chinese and foreign parents have relevant parenting experience and believe that the early years are the golden age for shaping the healthy growth of their children. Many parents understand that they are the key influencers of their children’s growth, and that their children will learn by example, so they have to set an example and start to discipline them at a young age. I believe that parents focus on disciplining their children’s behavior, but recent studies in medicine, science, psychology, and early childhood development all point to the interaction and relationship between parents and children as the foundation for their children’s development.

“Attachment Theory research clearly shows that as early as 0-18 months of age, a parent or primary caregiver forms a lifelong relationship pattern with the child that will be passed on for the rest of the child’s life. Once a secure attachment relationship is

established, it is like a secure base that can be effective in dealing with future turbulent situations and in building the ability to have a successful family relationship. Conversely, once an insecure relationship pattern is established, it can have a negative impact on an infant’s future growth, emotional processing, and family relationships.

Secure Attachment

The key to establishing a secure attachment pattern is for parents to establish a secure attachment when their child is 0-18 months old. Parents can build secure attachments based on the following suggestions

Be close to your child often, especially when they need it, such as when they cry and see their parents comforting them so that they know you are always there for them.

Invest emotionally in the parent-child relationship so that your child knows thatyou enjoy spending time with them and are interested in them, rather than being preoccupied with your own work. So parents need to play with their children from time to time to increase parent-child interaction and communication.

Parents are sensitive to their children’s emotional needs because children need you not only to meet their physical needs but also to care about their emotions and help them express and respond to them, especially negative emotions. When your child is dancing or smiling, you will help them say, “My baby is so happy! I’m so excited!” When your child is upset or crying, you will pick them up and offer protection and comfort. As they grow older, they will have more complex emotions, such as worry, fear, anger, frustration, and shame, and parents need to encourage and help their children express them, even though their negative emotions may have something to do with them.

Insecure Attachment

I have handled many cases in which the children are smart and well-behaved and have excellent academic performance, but they are very disturbed emotionally. Their parents think they are leading by example, loving their children and working hard, but they do not understand how their children can have emotional problems. If they look closely at the “attachment pattern” between themselves and their children to see if they are always close to their children, if they are emotionally involved, and if they can meet their children’s emotional needs, it will be easy to find the core of the problem and help parents rebuild a secure attachment relationship with their children so that they can rely on them and build a foundation for growth.

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成為孩子安全的依附對象親子互動尤其重要

September 2022

撰文：家庭動力個人、婚姻及家庭治療師呂淑晶女士

俗語有云「三歲定八十」，西方亦有 “The future is now” 的說法，可見中外父母都有相關的育兒經驗，認為幼年時期是塑造孩子健康成長的黃金階段。很多父母都明白自己是影響孩子成長的關鍵人物，孩子會耳濡目染，所以自己要以身作則，從少開始管教他們。筆者認為父母都把焦點放在管教子女的行為上，而近代醫學、科學、心理學和幼兒發展的研究之中，均指出父母與子女的互動和關係才是影響子女成長的基礎。

「依附理論」研究清楚告訴我們，早於孩子在 0 – 18 個月，父母或主要照料者，已跟孩子形成一個影響一生的關係模式，將會承傳一生。安穩的依附關係一旦建立，就好像建立了一個安全基地，可以有效面對日後動盪不安的處境和建立美滿家庭關係的能力。相反，一旦建立不安全的關係模式，對嬰兒日後的成長，情緒處理和家庭關係都會帶來負面影響。

安全的依附關係

能否建立安穩的依附關係模式，關鍵在於孩子在 0 – 18 個月時，家長們可以根據以下建議建立安全的依附關係︰

可經常親近孩子，特別是在孩子有需要的時候，例如哭泣時會見到父母在安慰自己，讓孩子知道您常在他們身邊。

在親子關係投入情感，令孩子知道您喜歡跟他們在一起，對他們有興趣，而不會老是專注自己的工作。所以父母需要不時與子女玩耍，增加親子互動和交流。

父母能夠敏銳回應孩子的情感需要，因為孩子不單只是需要您滿足他們身體温飽的需要，而是更加需要您去關心他們的情緒，幫助他們表達和回應，尤其是負面情緒。當子女手舞足蹈或笑嘻嘻時，您會幫他們說︰「BB好開心！好興奮啊！」當孩子不安或哭泣時，您會抱起他們，並給予保護和安慰；當他們長大些的時候，會有更複雜的情緒，例如擔心、害怕、憤怒、挫敗和羞愧，家長更需要鼓勵和幫助孩子表達，縱使他們的負面情緒可能跟您們有關，亦要給予一定程度的肯定和疏導。

不安全的依附關係

筆者處理不少家庭個案，孩子們都是聰明乖巧和成績優異，卻在情緒上受到很大的困擾，他們的父母認為自己以身作則，愛惜孩子和踏實工作，不明白孩子怎麼會有情緒問題？倘若他們細心觀察自己與子女的「依附關係模式」，看看自己和子女是否經常親近、情感是否投入，以及能否滿足孩子的情感需要，就會不難找到問題的核心所在，從而幫助父母與子女重建安全的依附關係，讓孩子得到依賴，建立成長的基礎。